
Yesterday I expressed my gratitude for the sounds around me. Today I want to express my gratitude for the opposite. I will elaborate:
In Washington, I had a great friend named Beth. She is deaf. She, her husband (also deaf), and her family started coming to church. Although she had hearing children who could interpret, I really felt a closeness to her that inspired me to learn ASL (American Sign Language). I checked out books at the library, and went to her house quite often to ask her how to sign words or phrases that were hard. I became fluent in conversational sign language.
My friendship with Beth opened up another world I didn't know existed! I went on a date with a guy who was deaf. I met other deaf and hard-of-hearing people. I became friends with many of them. They would sign so quickly to each other, but I loved to watch intently and absorb all I could. There were times when I, as a hearing person, was in the minority. But I felt completely comfortable.
Something I have learned from the deaf community: they are some of the most giving, open, patient people. They become fast friends and are very accepting. They are warm and generous. They are skilled and intelligent, and have a wisdom that shows deep insight.
Beth became my best friend for a couple of years until I moved away. I loved signing with her. We would have races to finger-spell the alphabet with both hands. I sometimes won!
The best thing about learning ASL has been the ability to express myself. In spoken English, there are so many times when a word eludes me. In ASL, I can express my emotions. It's not just signing words, but emotions, thoughts, feelings, and using facial expressions. I found ASL to be very liberating!
I once met a man who was both deaf and blind. He used sign language to communicate. When I signed back, he would lightly touch my hands to feel what I was signing. This was one of the most humbling experiences I've ever had. So many people in the world would dismiss such a person. But he was full of life! He had opinions, he was caring!
Today I am thankful for the deaf community. I have used my ASL in many settings. I've interpreted for a wedding, I've interpreted at the doctor's office, I've taught a missionary discussion in ASL, I've taught beginning ASL to many people, I've met people I would have never met before! I have loved meeting deaf people, even here in Germany! If I'd never learned ASL, I would truly be missing out. I have learned things from the deaf community that I couldn't have learned otherwise. I love them, and just want to express my gratitude for them.
4 comments:
You are so talented with languages! And very brave to attempt them and to communicate with others. I admire this about you.
Beth is an amazing woman and so are you. I love you both.
Wow - I didn't know you were fluent in ASL, that is awesome! We taught (and learned together as a family) a few baby signs for Rachel starting when she was 9 months old. It helped her communicate with us and talk early, I loved it! She still uses many frequently even though she can talk pretty well now. Pretty cool language.
I'm sure they are thrilled that you are able to communication with them! Were you able to understand deaf in German or had to use gesture and learn their GSL (German Sign Language)? I met a deaf man in Austria and we had to use lot of gesture to be sure we are on the same page. :D Still it's FUN! Yay for you! Indeed it's a great blessing to be able to communication other community and other world.
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